Last year for my friend Flisha’s 30th birthday, I wrote this on the card I sent her:
So I decided to go old school and send you an actual card for your 30th. How many of these things do you get these days, right? They’ve become so rare that maybe someday they’d be obsolete that having one in your possession would be like having a… well, an antique or an old painting, and you would display them on your walls or inside a glass case with a fully-equipped alarm to prevent robbers from stealing them and fencing them on the market for thousands or millions of dollars.
And every time you have guests over for tea or a social function or whatever, you would lead them to the glass case or frame or whatever housing this card and say, “Now this, this was a card that I got from my friend Dee for my thirtieth birthday. It’s the most expensive one in my collection because as you know, she became very famous, even more so after she died a mysterious tragic death.” (Wait a minute, why did it get so ambitious then suddenly morbid, all in one breath?)
The thought of all those people who will see this card… pressure! I must be eloquent! I must move them to tears! I must… Okay, I am getting carried away. As usual.
Yes, I write weird things like that on actual letters to people. And yes, I sometimes wonder why people stay friends with me.
But anyway, if someday, what I said about actual cards did come true, then I present to you… my treasure trove!
My treasure trove |
My favorite note is this one from one of our bosses because he listed down the things they’ll miss about me, in bullet points, like a boss. Haha!
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This post is part of the A to Z Challenge, a blog hop that goes through the alphabet for all the days of April except Sundays.ย I have decided to go with the theme ofย Alliterations.ย
Megan says
I LOVE what you wrote for your friend on her card- so clever. And I have boxes and envelopes full of old cards and letters. I can't get rid of them!
Dee says
Thank you! Wow I'm jealous that you have boxes of treasures! Haha.
Carol Z says
I like getting cards and keep my recent favorites where I can see them. And, yes, I still send them and enjoy picking them out.
Dee says
That's a great idea – putting the recent favorites within view.
mrkelly2u says
Hi Dee – this is a lovely idea. I'm terrible and usually just put my cards in to the recycling box after a few days! I guess that makes me a very bad person. And I'm throwing away future museum artefacts! Good post again.
Dee says
That doesn't really make you a bad person, you know. ๐
Grammy Staffy says
I can tell from your keepsake treasures that you are well loved…. That is worth more than riches. Have a great day
Dee says
Thank you. I feel rich in that sense. ๐
Shilpa Garg says
These old cards and letters form such beautiful and wonderful memories. I love going through my old letters, pictures and it is like transported back in time with s smile plastered on your face! ๐
Dee says
Yes, a time machine! Same way a blog does too.
Jolie du Pre says
Fun post! I still send cards to close friends and family members.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.preciousmonsters.com" rel="nofollow">Precious Monsters</a>
Dee says
Good for you. ๐
Crystal Collier says
I just got done telling someone how I don't collect things, but I guess that isn't true. I have every letter my hubby ever wrote, and all of the ones I received from family members way back. I think I collect pictures mostly, though. –This is why a computer is amazing: keep every image stored in a single place. =)
Dee says
Go back and tell that someone what you realized. ๐
David Macaulay says
love this post. It's sad that this is a dying art. Of course my handwriting is so bad nobody could ever read my cards anyhow ๐
Dee says
Thanks! Haha, Doctor's handwriting?
Afshan says
Whoaa<br />I do lived reading it dee<br />It's not just a keep sake<br />It's a real treasure trove . Like yu said technology totally spoiled it all … And ppl seldom send cards <br />Ur lucky u preserved them<br />God bless u and yr friends <br />Fellow a to zer<br />Afshan
Afshan says
I meant I loved a lot reading it<br />Typed all wrong words . Thanks to technology and touch phones :)<br />Have a good day
Dee says
Haha. Thank you! Technology spoiled something for you too.
Nick Wilford says
Hey, these things are not so common these days in the FB/Twitter age. They are definitely to be treasured!
Dee says
True!
JoJo says
I used to keep boxes of old letters but I ended up throwing them all out over the years b/c I just didn't have room. I have saved postcards, photos and envelope stamps from them though. Some cards do end up in my scrapbooks.
Dee says
Yes sometimes you don't have a choice. But it's good that you did keep a few.
Me says
I loved this one. I too have all my X'mas cards i had received till date…I just love all these memories. ๐
Dee says
Yay for us. ๐
Lizzy says
I haven't sent a card (besides Christmas cards) to anyone in too long, you've just reminded me! I really should… That said, I also have a box full of cards, from our wedding, our baby shower, Christmases past. <br /><br />And I love what you wrote your friend =) I always imagine my journals and sketchbooks being worth tons when I'm rich and famous!
Dee says
Hahaha, so I see i"m not the only ambitious one! ๐
Bradley Charbonneau says
Wow! Look at the time you spent for your friend! For your treasure trove box! Any friend worth their salt is going to appreciate exactly that: you took the time to do something for them. It looks like you know just what to do with old souvenirs and knick-knacks: put them to good use! I tried to write about that to keep some of your travels fresh in "<a href="http://repossible.com/